(A long overdue letter of thanks to the lady with water and sandwiches in Galicia...)
Dear kind Señora
in remote coastal Galicia near Padrón, Spain,
Since I met you
back in the early spring of 1995, I have met many trail angels, but you were my
first. It was you who made me a pilgrim, possibly you who fueled this obsession,
to walk long walks in sacred space and time. I have thanked you many times in
my heart. I am pretty certain you have long forgotten what you did. Isn’t it
remarkable how one seemingly little act can alter a whole life?
That spring was
nine years after I first heard about the Camino de Santiago. In 1986, those
three words lodged into me and I knew that one day, when I could, I would walk
it. But despite the long years, you would think that I had a plan for it. Instead,
when the moment arrived, I was utterly unprepared. In fact, I hadn’t planned to
walk it just then.
I was coming up from southwestern Spain where I had just finished doctoral research for my
dissertation. My husband, Miles, met me midway in Lisbon and we took the train north
through Portugal and into Galicia, destined for Santiago de Compostela. I
figured I had a few days to see the glorious city of legend and myth and then one
day, a year or two later if providence allowed, I would return with more time
to walk the whole trail from Saint-Jean-Pied-de-Port.
But just before reaching
the train’s terminus in Santiago, we heard the train conductor announce, “last
stop, Padrón.”
Padrón, right?
Where Saint James first arrived by stone boat? Where this whole Santiago thing
really begins?
Miles and I
looked at each other and knew it had to start here. Just as the train was
beginning to pull out of Padrón, we grabbed out packs and jumped. I heard an
explosive, “¡Coños!” erupt from behind us, accompanied by the well-justified
arm pumping of the conductor. But we landed well, knocked the dust off of the
hems of our pants, and after visiting the town where Saint James’ stone boat purportedly
moored nearly two thousand years, we began walking.
We had no map,
no food, and no water. My thesis, all 500-pages of it, was strapped to the hood
of my pack. We took the scenic route, a roundabout detour to walk along the coastal
finger of land between Padrón and Noya. Only when we were out in the middle of
nowhere did we realize what royal idiots we were. We entered a natural
protected park, a rare place in Spain where there are no cafés.
“Don’t worry,”
Miles said, “This here is a pilgrimage. Let’s trust the path to give us what we
need when we need it.” With that sketchy plan, we pressed on.
Three hours
later, seeing no one and no café, feeling an increasingly dry texture in my
throat, I began to doubt Miles’ optimistic approach. But it was right then that
you appeared, driving past us and serendipitously stopping you car on the
roadside to check on something. I rushed over to you to ask you where we could
find water and food.
“You’re
in the middle of a protected natural park,” you’d answered, “so not very near
here, except…” You smiled and opened your trunk, rooted through several bags,
and then pulled out a large unopened bottle of mineral water and two
sandwiches. You told us to take them, that you had just come from your grocery
shopping, and, thinking of going for a hike later in the day, had on a whim
picked up the water and bocadillos. You insisted and refused any
payment. “This is pilgrimage,” you’d said and drove off.
This
is pilgrimage.
Those
three words reverberated in my mind and rewove my body and being. Christening
us pilgrims, out there on that wild finger of land in the middle of nowhere,
was a game changer for me. It was the very moment I turned into a lifelong
pilgrim.
Your
one act also seemed to have opened a magical door, one flowing with serendipity
and synchronicity. The rest of the day, people showed up right as we needed
guidance, sustenance, and support. By night, coastal villagers gave us a place
to sleep and shared their dinner, just-caught fish and just-plucked vegetables
from their gardens, along with homemade sparkling white wine.
Thanks
to you, I became a pilgrim. Thanks to you and your many brother and sister
Camino angels since, I have remained a pilgrim, and I continue to learn from
you about grace, magic, generosity, and kindness with each step of the Way.
Mil
gracias por todo.